Ten years ago; give or take, I had a very different life style. Two tweens and three kids under five had me pretty busy. Not that I’m not busy now, but it’s a different type of busy. And looking back, it’s not that I prefer one over the other. In fact, life is simply going by too fast and I wish I could rewind it and relive certain parts over again. I love life!
I’m still homeschooling my children, while teaching and encouraging others. (If they feel led)
I’m still doing fun things in my free time…golf, tennis, dining out, and of course, shopping..
Mainly things that require me to be, well, casual… which is what this little ‘thinking out loud’ post is about.
While cleaning my closet last night; something I only do twice a year, I started realizing how many dressy clothes I have.
Did I use to go to a ton of different places that required me to dress up? Not really. I just use to dress up. It made me feel a certain way.
I use to only wear dresses, skirts, and blouses.
About fifteen years of my life. Actually.
Nowadays, I live in yoga pants and Eddie Bauer tees. Or a Ralph Lauren flannel on top of an Old Navy tee.
If I want to dress up, I wear my darker black yoga pants with a blouse. Satin or lace! It’s no brainer. And ever so 1990’s, as my children like to say. 😁
Are yoga pants a step up from blue jeans, or a step down? The jury is still out on that one…
But currently, I’m just not a blue jeans type of gal. So a dozen pairs of black yoga pants is what I choose from.
So where does this leave all my pretty, dressy, clothing?
Do I sell it all now? Or wait it out to see if my style changes, feeling change, yet again…
As stated in previous posts, my life revolves around how I feel.
Things make me feel good, bad, or uncertain. And getting dressed up each day, for the sake of just dressing up, use to make me feel good.
Now it makes me feel uncertain.
So I try to only dress up if I’m going to be dining out somewhere other then Chick fi’lay, but I have noticed that others generally don’t dress up for dining out anymore.
Even at fancy restaurants.
People use to dress up for the movies even. But nope! Not anymore. After all… no one sees you anyways, so I guess why bother? Is that the mind frame?
I am looking around and realizing…..
Hey! I finally blend in! I really do look like everyone else now. Basic. And maybe that is A-Okay. 🙂
One of my daughters just got back from Europe. She said that everyone dresses up if they are out in the public eye. Meaning, no sports wear attire. No leggings, sweats, and definetly no yoga pants and tees. If you are in the public eye, you look your best. And mentally, I do love that!
This makes me question why America is different. Didn’t people use to dress up? I know for church, events, and dining out they did… but something has changed in the past couple decades.. Everyone looks the same.
And I guess I’m just late for the party, per usual. 🙃
Do you all dress the same all the time? Regardless of where you are going.
Do you find you blend on with everyone around you?