I am the mother I always dreamt of having myself.
I gave you my TIME.
My mother was rarely around.
I home cooked all your breakfasts, lunches, dinners, and all of your Birthday cakes from scratch.
My mother served me TV dinners.
I taught you how to cook.
My mother did not cook.
I played hours upon hours of games with you.
We talked. We laughed. We played some more.
I have no memories of playing any games with my mother.
I read many books to you that led to so many deep discussions about life and love.
I have no memory of my mother ever reading to me. Not even a bedtime story.
I taught you to read and write. I made the choice to homeschool you.
I was schooled at many different schools that left me with zero positivity on public education and self worth. Not to mention the social aspect of always being the new kid that didn’t fit in, which in return, warped my views on many friendships.
I gave you security and a stable home, family, and lifestyle honey.
I moved every year, oftentimes twice a year, up until you were born.
I dreamt on what it would feel like spending most of my childhood in one town and home. The security of knowing what to expect with each passing day.
I gave you that feeling that I wish I could have had, and experienced.
I gave you all your needs and most of your wants.
I gave you a Full Time Mother and a Full Time Father.
I gave you FOUR siblings and FOUR friends.
I grew up very alone.
And while all that is important to me, what’s even more important to me, is, I taught you about Christ.
I taught you about Gods Love for his children.
I taught you who the creator of this universe is.
I taught you that God loves you no matter what.
And how scripture IS your medicine during life’s ups and downs.
I taught you, and showed you, how much the Lord Loves you.
I grew up with no foundation of this. I wish I would have turned to God during all my loneliness, and all my heartbreaks.
So while I sit here and think about where I could have given you more, I’m coming up empty.
I gave you EVERYTHING that I always wished I would have had.
A Full Time Mother.
A Loving Mother.
A Mother who would make you feel special. Who would make you laugh beyond measure.
A Mother who wanted to be around you and spend quality time with you.
A Mother who would never see you as a burden.
A Mother who you trusted, and one that you knew Loved you no matter what.
A Mother who cared about YOU more then herself.
A Mother who would lay down her life for you.
A Mother who loves the Lord with all her Heart and Soul.
I Love You dear daughter of mine. I Love you SO much!
If I could have given you even more, you have to know that I would have.
But I gave you all that I had to give sweetheart.
I gave you a Full Time Mother.
I wish it would have been enough…